Thursday, October 28, 2010

Don't Point the Finger!

When things go wrong in your life, do you make life miserable by constantly dwelling on what happened?

Do you start pointing the finger, looking for someone to blame?

Maybe you blame yourself?

The thing about dwelling on past `mistakes' or looking for someone to take the blame is that it wastes time. The negative emotion stops you from moving on with an open and positive mind.

Well, do you know, blame doesn't solve anything. It doesn't change what has already past. It doesn't make life better.

Even if you blame yourself when life isn't going well, what's the point of beating yourself up? Is it going to provide a solution? Does it really make you feel better? No!

So, don't dwell on past `mistakes' - remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons and experiences! Don't lose yourself in the blame mentality. It really doesn't help!

Simply learn what's needed from the event, and MOVE ON!

Life's too short and there's a whole world out there waiting to be explored!

What you waiting for? Let go of what's past, stop pointing the finger. Go live your life. Have fun. Embrace what is now and the good times to come.

"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you" - Wayne Dyer

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